Climbing

Hahahahahaha!

Photo of the Day, 10/28/09

Time to have some fun!




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About those photos

I'm still working on the Photo of the Day project, but I might not have a photo for *every* day. But, everywhere I go, I I look at things differently now. There are a lot of pictures out there, just some that aren't worth looking at.

Detangling

I have taken for granted the way that this "digital age" makes it so easy for people to stay connected. Keeping up with friends through Facebook, Twitter, their blogs (via a feed reader, of course), Flickr and the like makes information about anyone available through a variety of sources. And then add the corresponding iPhone or Blackberry apps - the ever-present devices where one can text, check e-mail, or even call to keep in touch - and you can find out anything about anyone, anytime. That's great when you want to keep in touch with where people are and what they're doing, but when you don't necessarily want to, it becomes really hard to disentangle yourself from the constant stream of information about them (seriously, G, I don't need to know the minutiae of every single second of your day through Facebook, your Gmail chat status, and Twitter). It's sensory overload; it almost necessitates total radio silence so that you don't have to think about which feeds into what, or that this syncs with that... It's enough to make one long for pre-smartphone days, when you weren't linked to everything, and where you didn't have access to everything all of the time. So I think I'm going to go back to an earlier time. No more Tweeting. No more Facebook. No more Google Chat. No more following blogs on the sly. I'm going to go back to the tried and true phone call (and e-mail) to keep in touch with people.

Realization

Despite the difficulty of the last week or so, I'm sure that I've made the right decisions. I'm more confident that I did the right thing for all involved. There's still a sadness that I don't think will ever go away, but it's a deep, dull ache, rather than the sharp debilitating pain that I felt before.

Photo of the Day, 10/25/09

What can I say... I like the sky.

Photo of the Day, 10/23/09

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Yet another reason why I love Michelle Obama

Laura Bush would have never done this!

Fall is here, thus apple picking is required

Since it might be too cold for apple picking this weekend, how's this as an alternative?

Secrets

Most of the time, when someone has a secret that they know they're not supposed to share, they let it out to at least one other person, just so that they don't have to carry the burden of that knowledge themselves. Also, usually the secret-teller in truth wants that information to get out, but they're just not ready or willing to let it out publicly. And then there are the secrets that have to be left unspoken, because the implications of that information getting out are just too dire.

I have one of those secrets, and I am being crushed under the weight of it. It's making me miserable, but there would be disastrous consequences if I let it out. So I am stuck with this one option. I have to just hold it in.